MEN & WOMEN
Since the dawn of time, Men were always the providers. Men would travel distances and hunt to provide food for his family or tribe. The Women would wait in the safety on their villages waiting for the Men to come back with food . Though very different in contribution , both men and women needed each other to survive. This was moment when Men were considered as the leader and provider. From the start Men were the ones risking it all for the survival , providing food for his family . This was the begin , the early stages of man. As time progressed , things have changed and today , people are looking for Gender equality. Gender Equality is the acceptance that anything men can do , women can do it too. This is something most people hope to accomplish but society would have a different view. Can Gender equality really be achieved ? Since the changes of society's standards , there has been a shift when it comes to determining who is the Alpha and who is the beta between the 2 genders. From the start Men were the rulers , the Alpha dog but now a shift has happened , making the women Superior then men and the question is "Who is now the Superior?"
WHICH GENDER IS CONSIDERED WEAKER?
Which gender is weaker ? Why isn't gender equality possible? Well if we were too look at it from my point of view. We as the men were wired from the start that we were the providers , the sole called leaders of the pack. The changes to society has made it in favor of the women. In past women weren't considered that much part of society , there was even a time when women cant vote but times have changes. Women can now run countries , they have absolute freedom but does that mean gender equality exist in today's modern life? Well no , We as men have become weaker . We are the ones trying to adjust to society's standards. Women to us men are considered to be "crazy" they want equality among the genders but yet they want to be treated like royalty? How can things be equal if the opposite group wants an advantage? That is just plain old crazy. In my country there is a word for those kind of women "PABEBE"
Lets place it in a different view , there is a social experiment , where it shows first a couple and the women was the one being abusive to her partner. Most people that passed by laughed and just simply looked , like nothing is happening or they know something is happening but they don't want to do anything about it because come on its a woman being abusive , she cant do real damage but then the next experiment shows that they switched, now the boyfriend is now abusive one and the reaction of the people also changed. People tend to react more , even going as far as defending the girl or jumping straight into the action trying to defend something they have little detail about. Its a perfect example how we as men are judged differently . We cannot be as soft like the women and if we do act like it we would be judge immediately by society being called homophobic.
Last thing I want to point out is that when people see a couple and you notice that the girl is little bit on the chubby side and the guy was normal , people would say "Aww what a sweet couple , Shes a lucky girl" but if the guy was at the other end people's reactions would be " He should lose weight or He must have a lot of money " . Women dont understand how hard it is for us guys to please them, we are the ones that needs to confidence to talk to you , to provide for you and sacrifice our well being to keep you happy. Society views as men as walking targets, if theirs a problem with a relationship , let say a rape charge , people without second guessing would assume its was the guy but most people forget rape issue isn't a woman's issue but a human issue's. Society needs to remember not all men are dogs , if 40 out of 50 murdered people , is it fair to label the 10 innocent as murderers as well?
Lets place it in a different view , there is a social experiment , where it shows first a couple and the women was the one being abusive to her partner. Most people that passed by laughed and just simply looked , like nothing is happening or they know something is happening but they don't want to do anything about it because come on its a woman being abusive , she cant do real damage but then the next experiment shows that they switched, now the boyfriend is now abusive one and the reaction of the people also changed. People tend to react more , even going as far as defending the girl or jumping straight into the action trying to defend something they have little detail about. Its a perfect example how we as men are judged differently . We cannot be as soft like the women and if we do act like it we would be judge immediately by society being called homophobic.
Last thing I want to point out is that when people see a couple and you notice that the girl is little bit on the chubby side and the guy was normal , people would say "Aww what a sweet couple , Shes a lucky girl" but if the guy was at the other end people's reactions would be " He should lose weight or He must have a lot of money " . Women dont understand how hard it is for us guys to please them, we are the ones that needs to confidence to talk to you , to provide for you and sacrifice our well being to keep you happy. Society views as men as walking targets, if theirs a problem with a relationship , let say a rape charge , people without second guessing would assume its was the guy but most people forget rape issue isn't a woman's issue but a human issue's. Society needs to remember not all men are dogs , if 40 out of 50 murdered people , is it fair to label the 10 innocent as murderers as well?
Gender equality isn't really cut up to what it is. People say they want women to be able to do what women do and yet the consensus of every single person out there still sees a woman as a delicate flower that can't be defiled? If people want equality, then the consensus has to learn that equality means women can get their hands covered in blood of their enemies.Equality means there is literally no "Stereotypes", There is no Boundary for limitations.The only boundary is what both men and women cannot do.If you want gender equality ,then don't stereotype both men and women and accept that men can be as delicate as a flower, and a woman can be as powerful as a bull.
